What if Kundali Doesn’t Match?

Kundali matching, also called Guna Milan or Horoscope Matching, has been an important part of Hindu marriages for centuries. It is believed to ensure that two individuals are compatible at physical, emotional, and spiritual levels. But what if the Kundalis don’t match? Does that mean the marriage cannot happen?

The short answer is no. A Kundali mismatch does not always mean rejection of marriage. Instead, it highlights potential challenges and suggests areas where couples may need to put extra effort. In many cases, remedies can help reduce the negative effects of doshas and create a harmonious married life.

In this blog, let’s explore what a Kundali mismatch really means, the common myths around it, remedies to overcome it, and how couples can still build a successful marriage.

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What Does It Mean When Kundali Doesn’t Match?

Kundali matching is done based on the Ashtakoot Guna Milan system, where a maximum of 36 points (gunas) can be matched between the charts of the bride and groom.

A score of 18 or more is generally considered acceptable.

A score of less than 18 may indicate possible challenges in marital life.

However, it’s important to note that the Guna Milan score is only one factor. Astrologers also check for doshas (flaws) such as:

Mangal Dosha – caused by Mars placement, linked to conflicts or delay in marriage.

Nadi Dosha – associated with health and compatibility issues between partners.

Bhakoot Dosha – linked to financial and emotional stability in marriage.

So, a low score or a mismatch indicates certain astrological imbalances, but these can often be managed with remedies.

Myths About Kundali Mismatch

Unfortunately, there are many misconceptions about Kundali mismatch. Let’s clear some of them:

Myth 1: Marriage is impossible if Kundali doesn’t match
→ Reality: Remedies and mutual understanding can overcome mismatches.

Myth 2: A low Guna score guarantees divorce
→ Reality: Thousands of marriages have succeeded despite low scores. Emotional connection matters just as much.

Myth 3: Doshas cannot be removed
→ Reality: Doshas like Mangal or Nadi can be reduced through pujas, mantras, donations, and other rituals.

Can Marriage Work Without Kundali Matching?

Yes, marriages can succeed even when Kundalis don’t match. Astrology provides guidance, but it does not override human values like love, trust, patience, and compromise.

Practical Compatibility: Shared values, mutual respect, and communication are as important as astrological matching.

Real-Life Examples: Many couples with mismatched Kundalis lead happy lives, while some with perfect matches still face challenges.

Astrologer’s Role: A good astrologer looks beyond just Guna Milan and studies the entire chart, including planetary placements, dashas, and individual strengths.

So, if Kundalis don’t match, it does not automatically mean rejection. Instead, it means extra care and remedies may be required.

Astrological Remedies for Kundali Mismatch

If a Kundali mismatch is identified, astrologers suggest personalized remedies depending on the type of dosha. Here are some common ones:

Mangal Dosha Remedies

Chanting Hanuman Chalisa or Mangal Mantras.

Performing Mangal Dosh Nivaran Puja on Tuesdays.

Observing fasts on Tuesdays.

Wearing gemstones like Red Coral (only after astrological advice).

Nadi Dosha Remedies

Performing Nadi Dosh Nivaran Puja.

Donating food, clothes, or money to the needy.

Reciting the Mahamrityunjaya Mantra regularly.

Bhakoot Dosha Remedies

Performing specific pujas recommended by astrologers.

Wearing gemstones or Rudraksha beads.

Strengthening the Moon and Jupiter through mantras and donations.

👉 The effectiveness of remedies depends on proper guidance from an experienced astrologer. Generic solutions may not always work.

What Should You Do If Your Kundali Doesn’t Match?

If you find that your Kundalis don’t match, here are the steps to follow:

  1. Consult a Trusted Astrologer
    Don’t rely only on automated tools. Get your horoscope analyzed in detail.

  2. Look Beyond the Guna Score
    Even with low matching points, other favorable planetary positions may balance things out.

  3. Check for Doshas
    Identify if the mismatch is due to Mangal, Nadi, or Bhakoot Dosha. Remedies vary for each.

  4. Consider Real-Life Compatibility
    Emotional understanding, financial stability, and family support are equally important.

  5. Perform Remedies if Needed
    Pujas, mantra chanting, donations, and lifestyle changes can help reduce negative effects.

Conclusion

A Kundali mismatch should not be seen as the end of marriage prospects. Instead, it’s a signal to take extra care and adopt remedies where necessary. Remember, astrology is a guiding tool — a happy marriage depends equally on trust, love, patience, and compatibility in real life.

If your Kundali doesn’t match with your partner’s, don’t panic. Use Astropatri’s Free Kundali Matching Tool or consult our expert astrologers for personalized remedies and guidance.

Can love marriage succeed if Kundali doesn’t match?

Yes. Love, trust, and mutual respect play a major role in marriage success. Astrology highlights challenges, but relationships depend on effort and understanding.

One must look at multiple other factors like the nature, core characterstics of the partner and see the Kundali matching in complete context.

Is 18 Gunas matching always mandatory?

No. 18 is a guideline, not a strict rule. Some couples with lower scores still lead happy lives. Alot of other factors like 7th house, 7th lord,  position of Venus and Jupiter etc are seen along with the number of matching gunas.

Which dosha is most harmful in Kundali matching?

Mangal Dosha and Nadi Dosha are considered significant, but remedies exist for both. There are often many inbuilt cancellations in the horoscope for both the Doshas.

Can remedies completely remove doshas?

Yes, remedies can significantly reduce the negative impact, though results vary based on individual charts. The partners can always work upon inproving things in their control like mutual appreciation, love and respect and let remedies do the remaining part.

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Alok Bhatnagar

Alok Bhatnagar, founder of Astropatri got initiated in the field of Astrology in 1998. He was working with the Internet department of The Times of India Group at that time. Alok helped set up the Astrology portal for Times Group – Astrospeak.

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